The Intimacy Prism: Emotion Management among the Clients of Escorts
Abstract
A growing but still limited body of research has examined the views and experiences of clients of sex workers. The current study is based on a content analysis of 2,442 postings on a popular forum where clients review sex workers and discuss their interactions with them. The article explores the reported experiences of a sample of clients who become involved in extended relationships with escorts and the emotional aspects of these associations. Findings show that there is a spectrum of experiences, ranging from counterfeit intimacy to an authentic emotional bond between the two parties. Many clients struggle with the unanticipated demands of an evolving romantic relationship and experience ongoing tension between its instrumental and expressive dimensions.
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Christine Milrod, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, AASECT-certified sex therapist and independent researcher, specializing in the study of male clients of heterosexual prostitution, female sex workers and transgender issues.
Ronald Weitzer is professor of sociology at George Washington University. He has published extensively in the area of sex work and sex trafficking. He is the editor of Sex For Sale (Routledge, 2010) and author of Legalizing Prostitution: From Illicit Vice to Lawful Business (NYU Press, 2012).
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